The Bereaved Parent and Their Faith

One of a series of leaflets published by The Compassionate Friends There is probably no greater tragedy for a parent than the death of their child. The Compassionate Friends (TCF) is composed of parents and other family members who have this experience, and we reach out in love and compassion to others who are similarly bereaved. In this leaflet we will explore some of the issues revolving around the death of our child that connect with faith perspectives. TCF is a secular organisation without any religious affiliation. However, some of the parents who become involved with us have a faith background. While some of us have found our faith to be a source of strength, supporting us as we continue our lives as best as we can and remembering our child or children always, others struggle to find answers. There are, of course, a variety of faiths and also degrees of adherence. We have tried to write this leaflet in a way that would apply to as many religious perspectives as possible, without entering into any theological or controversial aspects. It is our hope that you will find something useful within these pages. Our faith can give us solace, but it can also make our grief more complex Our religious beliefs and spirituality can help us adjust to the loss of our child. Faith can give us hope for a reunion with them in the next life. We may be comforted by a sense of heavenly consolation. The support of our community of fellow believers may be another positive aspect. The simple practice of attending our places of worship week after week may give us a sense of continuity and be a source of strength. Some of us may like to pray in the places where The Bereaved Parent and Their Faith