One of a series of leaflets published by The Compassionate Friends Some parents may go back to work early on, either because it is their preference or because they have no choice. Others may delay a return to work, giving themselves more time to grieve and recover at least some equilibrium. Going back to work has advantages, as it does give a bit of daily motivation and interaction with other people. Whatever your own thoughts about this, it is up to the bereaved parent and their circumstances to make their own choices. Let the parents know about The Compassionate Friends (TCF). Many parents find it helpful to speak with other people who have had similar bereavements. Discovering that they are not alone in their experience of loss nor unusual for how they are affected by grief can make a real difference. It needs to be their own choice whether or not to get involved with any of the bereavement support charities, but you can certainly signpost them. TCF exists to support bereaved parents and siblings. You can find more details on the back page. Surviving children and those without other children Surviving children will be mourning their sibling. This may not be adequately acknowledged by other family members and friends who direct their attention mainly at the bereaved parents. Perhaps taking the children out would benefit the family as a whole – not only as a treat, but also to provide a place where they can talk freely. They may not do so at home, because they fear that their parents could be upset by their questions, thoughts and worries. These will vary depending on their ages and their relationship with their deceased sibling. Games and sports can be useful outlets for emotions that are too difficult to be put into words.
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