UK Helpline: 0345 123 2304 | tcf.org.uk • Even minor problems in the home can feel insurmountable when someone is already struggling. If something needs fixing, offering to get in touch with a repairman, the plumber or electrician, might be very welcome. • While all parents might appreciate this type of practical help, it could be quite vital for single parents. • They may appreciate support at appointments, either to help them remember what they wanted to say, or to take notes about important information or decisions. “So many people brought round food for our family - I was amazed as each gift was completely unexpected and it really got us through the first terrible weeks.” There may be belongings to be collected from places outside home. Offer to accompany the parents, or to go for them if they would prefer that. If you collect the child’s personal items, do not bring them back in a bin bag – treat them with respect. Correspondence arriving for the deceased child (who may, of course, have been an adult) can be very distressing for the parents. Perhaps, you could offer to write letters (for the parents to sign) to inform the relevant organisations. thebereavementregister.org.uk or bereavementadvice.org who offer a free service that reduces unwanted junk mail addressed to the deceased.
RkJQdWJsaXNoZXIy OTM0NTEz