The Police and Bereaved Parents

One of a series of leaflets published by The Compassionate Friends Signposting • Leave your name , and make sure details of police telephone numbers, who they may contact and at what times of day are clearly available for them; they may want to ring and ask questions afterwards. It may help to suggest that outside of these times they could write down any questions they have to ask later. • If you are making the initial visit to the parents before a Police Family Liaison Officer (FLO) becomes involved, explain to the parents what they can expect from the FLO, including when they are likely to be contacted by them. • Please provide the parents with information about The Compassionate Friends (TCF) where they will be able to access personal support from others who have gone through a similar tragedy. Your service may wish to keep on hand copies of the small leaflet Introducing the Compassionate Friends . This is available free of charge from the TCF office (contact details on the back page.) • You may also wish to suggest that the parents inform their GP of what has happened, so that appropriate medical or other support can be offered. Identification and visiting their child • If the parents need to identify their son or daughter, it is important to explain this and prepare them in advance for what it involves – clearly and with sensitivity and compassion. • While parents are likely to wish to visit their child as soon as possible, it is best that they do not drive themselves . They will also need transport home afterwards. If you or a colleague are unable to help with transport, then a relative or friend may be available, but do not assume this. Arrangements for the temporary care of any other children may be required if extended family or friends are not available.