SIBBS Newsletter, Winter 2022

SIBBS Newsletter, Winter 2022 | www.tcf.org.uk 9 Sheffield sibling day Although I have been a member and now a volunteer at TCF for 5 years and had organised some informal pub meetups I had never been to an organised sibling event. I was really apprehensive about going and if I am honest, I was dreading it! Why was I dreading it? Because I knew it would be difficult and painful. It was both of those things, but it was also very heart-warming and inspiring to listen and talk to other bereaved siblings. It’s a strange thing to know that everyone in the room with you is there because they have also lost a sibling. I was blown away thinking about that fact. I felt so much love for everyone in my group. Yes, we had all lost our siblings in different circumstances, different ages although many siblings were so young. I felt we all shared a bond although not one that any of us would want. I was so moved listening to people’s stories about their siblings. We even had some laughs! I will never forget that day and the people I met. I think for me when I am feeling low or sad, I tend to isolate and not want to connect with people but attending the sibling day has shown me that connecting with others who have had a similar experience really does help. I would definitely recommend connecting in person with others if you are able to. by Rebecca