Here you will find a list of candle lighting and remembrance events around the UK. For more information, please contact the event organiser.
If you are organising your own event you can have it listed here by submitting the information here.
3 December 2017, 12.30 pm
East Sheen Cemetery Chapel, Sheen Road, Richmond, Surrey TW10 5BJ
Everyone welcome to attend, which are held in the cemetery chapels. During hte service the service there will be a period of personal reflection. The name of those we wish to remember will be read out during the service. Please give the names of those you wish to be remembered to the staff member at the chapel door.
You will be invited to place a personal message on the Christmas tree if you wish to do so, and tea-lights will also be available for you to light and leave burning throughout the service. This year we are inviting families to bring a helium balloon with them. We shall gather outside the chapel at the end of the service and release them in memory of those who we are thinking of at this time of the year.
3rd December 2017, 3 pm
Glenavy Parish Church.
Guest Speaker will be Dr. Michael Williams from Ballymoney (a bereaved parent)
Refreshments to follow. All warmly welcome.
For more information contact Anita at email@example.com
5 December 2017, 7.30 pm
Holy Trinity Church, 70 Main Road, Bolton le Sands, Carnforth, Lancashire LA5 8DU.
The Compassionate Friends Remembrance Service for anyone who has lost a child. All bereaved parents, siblings, relatives and friends are welcome.
There will be an opportunity for everyone to light a candle and write a name on a star to hang on a branch in the church. There will be a short service with a reading, hymns, poems, prayer and some CD music chosen by parents.
Following the service there will be tea, coffee and biscuits and an opportunity to meet other families (but there is no obligation to stay).
For further details email Louise at firstname.lastname@example.org
8 December 2017, 7.30 pm
Church Hall of St Andrews with Castle Gate Church, Goldsmith Street, Nottingham NG1 5JT
All parents who have lost a child are warmly welcome.
Contact: Pat and Jerry at email@example.com
Jessica's Heart, 14 New King Street, Deptford, London SE8 3HS
The two Deptford Compassionate Friends groups are hosting this event at Jessica's Heart in Deptford. Time: 6.00 pm for candle lighting at 7.00.
Please bring a photo of your child. All very warmly welcome to share in this
24-hour across the world ceremony of love and remembrance.
Bring a small sharing platter and anything you would like to drink.
10 December 2017, 6.45 pm to start at 7 pmLook Out and Remember site, Lower Leas Coastal Park (Sandgate end entrance - immediately on the right as you enter the Coastal Park), Folkestone (Sandgate end) CT20 2JP
Hythe (Kent) TCF Group are holding our Worldwide Candle Lighting at the beautiful Look Out and Remember site overlooking the sea at Folkestone, joining our friends - the founders/artists of Look Out and Remember - three of whom who have also lost a beloved child before their time.
Bring a torch/lantern and your candle/tea light in a jam jar or similar, as this event is outside. You could also put a pebble in the pebble pool in memory of your child.
All welcome, but if you have any queries please contact Diana at firstname.lastname@example.org
10 December 2017, 7pm
The Council Offices, Thames Avenue, Swindon SN25 1QQ
A Candle Lighting Evening and remembrance organised by the Swindon group of The Compassionate Friends.
Afterwards there will refreshments until 9 pm.
For more information contact Margaret at email@example.com
10 December, 6.45 pm start
The Salt House, West Bay, Bridport
The ceremony consists of music for reflection, poems and the reading of our children's names as candles are lit in their memory. You are invited to bring along a photograph to place on the remembrance table.
Refreshments will be available afterwards.
10 December, 2017 at 2.45 pm
Mariners Chapel, Chapel Street, Rowhedge, Colchester CO5 7JS.
All welcome to bring a picture and a candle if you wish as we remember our children.
For further details contact Paul at firstname.lastname@example.org at TCF Colchester Area Group.
10 December 2017, 6 pm
St Michael @ All Angels Church, Mildred Avenue, Watford WD18 7DS.
You are invited to bring a photograph of your loved one to put on display during the service.
Refreshments will be served afterwards.
For further details email Bob or Lynda at email@example.com
10 December 2017, 2.30 pm
Bolton Parish Church, Churchgate, Bolton BL1 1HX
Bolton Compassionate Friends group will be holding their annual candle service.
The event is a non-religious service of poetry and songs for bereaved parents, siblings, grandparents and extended family. All are invited to bring along a photo of their child(ren) to be displayed at the front of the church during the service and to join us for refreshments following the service.
The service is approx 45 minutes long and it is hoped it brings peace and comfort to families at what is a very emotive time of year.
For further details contact Jackie at firstname.lastname@example.org
10 December 2017, 6 pm
Hull Minster, 10a-11 King Street, Kingston upon Hull HU1 2JJ.
A service to remember children who have died and those who are missing.
'Light a Candle' that their light may always shine.
10 December 2017, 7 pm (please arrive around 6.30 pm)
The Didsbury Compassionate Friends Group will be holding a candle lighting event to honour our children at Christmastime.
All bereaved parents, siblings, grandparents welcome .
Please bring a candle and if you wish a food/plate contribution. Teas & coffee will be served. If you wish to have an alcoholic drink, please bring it with you.
For more details and venue contact Judith at email@example.com
10 December, 2017, 12 noon
Billingham, Teesside TS22
All bereaved parents are welcome to bring a selection of food to share and meet at 12 noon and have lunch together. Afterwards we decorate a memory candle jar and the candles are lit in memory of all our children. You can then take the jars home and re-light them at 7 pm.
For more information: contact Margaret or Jim at telephone 01642 363502 or email: firstname.lastname@example.org
All are welcome but advanced notice of attendance would help Margaret and JIm to organise the lunch.
10 December 2017, 7 pm
Jersey General Hospital Chapel
All bereaved parents, families and friends welcome.
For more details contact Carol at email@example.com
16 December 2017, 6 pm
Hayes Free Church, 111 Pickhurst Lane, Bromley, Hayes BR2 7HU.
All bereaved parents, their families and friends are invited to attend.
Please bring a photograph of your child to be displayed throughout the service.
The service will consist of suitable readings, some hymns/carols, candle lighting and a period of quiet reflection.
You will be invited to write your child’s name on a butterfly slip to be read during the service. These slips will be kept in a Book of Remembrance.
Further information can be obtained from: Vivienne 020 86588130
Vivienne and Gill, after much thought and discussion, have decided that this will be their last service for the Compassionate Friends. Our thanks go to all those who have helped us over the last 12 years. We hope it has been a help to those of you who have attended one or more of these services and perhaps someone might like to carry on where we have left off.
20 January 2018, 2 pm
St John's Church, Grainger Street, Newcastle upon Tyne NE1 5JG.
All are welcome to our annual ‘Celebrating a Life’ candle-lighting ceremony.
You may like to bring a flower and a photo of your lost child or children. Meet in the church hall afterwards for a coffee and a chat.
If you have any questions or need further information please do call Jenny on 0191 2815783.
Each year thousands of parents suffer the loss of a son or a daughter. Please help us to support families in their time of greatest need.