Online Support Group for Bereaved Lone Parents
10 November 2021, 19.00 – 20.30
Online Via Zoom
THE BEREAVED LONE PARENT
There are many reasons why we may be a lone parent. Personal choice, separation, bereavement, or other circumstances can all lead to us living as a single parent.
Whatever the circumstances, grieving for a child without a partner can bring its own difficulties, and can be very lonely and isolating.
Almost every bereaved parent will experience a profound feeling that no one else can understand the depth of our pain and often a sense of isolation. For lone parents, this feeling of isolation can be particularly intense.
For the lone parent coping with the loss of our child without a partner to support us through this most traumatic of times is very hard. No matter how supportive friends or family might be, in many respects we must struggle with both the emotions and the practical aspects of loss by ourselves.
This group is for those parents who have either brought up their child/children alone or are now living alone.
At this time we are running this event as a facilitated online group using Zoom.
Unfortunately due to the nature of online groups we will be limiting the number of attendees and booking is via our website. We will confirm your attendance by email.
If this event is fully booked we are hoping to run further groups at a later date to give more parents the opportunity to attend.
Once you book you will receive more details closer to the meeting date. Just a reminder to check your spam or junk email folders if you haven’t received the link for the online meeting by the day of the meeting. Please contact email@example.com if you have any questions or queries.
Please note that these online events are run by bereaved parent volunteers. Our volunteers are not professionals and so what we offer is a uniquely warm, comforting and supportive online group organised and facilitated by parents who have also experienced the loss of a child and have found understanding and hope themselves through The Compassionate Friends.
If you are newly bereaved:
Please note, our online support group meetings may not be the most appropriate form of support for very newly bereaved parents. We know how vulnerable we can be in the early weeks and months of our grief and how raw the pain and heartache can feel.
In an online support environment, we will of course do all we can to express our empathy to newly bereaved parents verbally but we won’t be able to offer the very important physical presence and contact that physical groups can offer especially when parents become very upset. Our online meetings tend to be shorter than physical meetings which also means that we won’t have as much time to hear from all group members in the ways in which we would do if we were meeting face to face.
We know that in the early days of our grief, there is a strong need to tell our ‘story’ about the loss of our precious child. We know that this is a very important part of grieving – however, our support groups, whether online or face to face can only offer the opportunity to say a little about your loss and in not too much detail so as to enable everyone to have a chance to speak and also to minimise the risk of anyone attending being re-traumatised around their own loss by hearing graphic details of someone else’s loss. It would help to know how early you are in your loss and whether you are already receiving TCF support – what we don’t wish to do is increase the vulnerability of any bereaved parent by not managing your expectations about what our support group offers and is unable to offer. We may make contact if we need to explore with you whether our online group support is the most appropriate way to support you at this stage in your loss.
Please note this group is for bereaved parents in the UK only – if you want to join from abroad please contact us on firstname.lastname@example.org
What parents have said from earlier groups:
...it was warm and welcoming, not intimidating at all.
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