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“It is the first time I have genuine hope."
Jul 3: “It is the first time I have genuine hope. I know we are on a lifelong journey and we’re only at the start but I honestly came away thinking, maybe one day everything will get a little better and we can live again.”
“One of the best experiences of my life"
May 22: Spring is an exciting time of year for TCF, alongside thousands of other charities. A handful of our supporters don their sporty sunglasses, running shoes and a whole lot of courage, to take on marathons in aid of grieving families all over the UK. This year we got the opportunity to cheer on some of our runners in person...
“A much-welcomed safe place where you can laugh and cry freely and be understood.”
Apr 4: The beginning of spring at TCF brought our first two support days of the year for bereaved parents: in Exeter and Edinburgh, supporting 75 bereaved parents.
Meet our new trustees
Mar 13: We are delighted to welcome three new trustees to The Compassionate Friends, elected by our members of bereaved parents and siblings. Our trustees ensure that TCF delivers its goals of offering high quality peer support to grieving parents and adult siblings. Tony, Karen and Jackie bring their own professional talents and expertise, but also their own experience of losing a beloved child.
Join our national walk, One Step at a Time
Jan 16: We have launched a national fundraiser running throughout May 2025! Raise funds for bereaved parents, siblings and grandparents who have lost a beloved child, sibling or grandchild of any age, from any cause. We invite you to walk with your friends and family throughout May: read for more information.
Applications to stand for election to the Board of Trustees
Jul 16: Do you have passion, skills and expertise that could help The Compassionate Friends (TCF) to continue to develop? The voluntary role of Trustee with our charity is rewarding and fulfilling. Our current Co- Chairs, Melian Mansfield and George Burn, together with our Board of Trustees, invite interested applicants to apply to serve on the Trustee Board by standing for election.
Scottish Gathering - view from a volunteer
Jun 27: It was a challenge, we didn’t know each other and had very little in common other than being bereaved parents, but with different skills and experiences that seemed to be important and bring different ideas to the table. So we came together in August 2023 not really knowing what to expect; other than we knew we had a huge challenge ahead and we wanted to get it right as much as possible for those...relying on a supportive weekend to help them in their journey.
Exeter mini-retreat and support day
Jun 27: I instantly felt a warm welcome. Coffee, cake and biscuits were being served. I was given a lanyard and programme for the day. I knew straight away I was in the company of people I had longed to be with, as only they could understand what it is to be a bereaved parent.
"Such a supportive weekend...a big warm hug"
Feb 18: “Such a supportive weekend. I described it as a big warm hug. Emotional and exhausting at times, but mainly supportive, inspiring and helpful. I would definitely recommend it.” The last weekend of January saw over 100 bereaved parents, siblings and grandparents came together for our retreat weekend in the heart of the Northamptonshire countryside.
Breaks in SW France for bereaved parents
Jan 23: One of the most difficult things for us to do after the death of a son or daughter is to go away on holiday...having to see all those 'complete' families can be just unbearable. So in 2022, The Compassionate Friends (TCF) were very pleased to form a relationship with Jack and Margaret Reckitt who have a holiday and retreats business, Manoir Mouret, in South West France.
The Big Online Quiz is back!
Jan 15: Back by popular demand! Bring together your family, friends and colleagues to play our fun online quiz...with quizmaster extraordinaire, Stephen. We welcome teams from anywhere - the corporate world...perhaps your company or business would like to enter a team? - and all our followers and supporters.
TCF volunteer, Hugh McAninch, honoured with MBE
Dec 30: Huge congratulations to Hugh McAninch who has been made an MBE in the King's New Years Honours for services to bereaved parents and their families in Scotland. Hugh volunteered for The Compassionate Friends for over 30 years after the death of his son, Christopher. He was nominated for the honour by the charity's volunteer team in Scotland and we are all delighted that all his hard work on the behalf of bereaved parents has been recognised on the national stage.
Annual General Meeting 2023
Dec 7: If you weren't able to join us, you can now listen to a recording of our Annual General Meeting held on Saturday 25 November 2023. We heard from our co-Chairs of Trustees, our Trustee Treasurer, and Chief Executive Officer. Our guest speaker was bereaved parent, Maria Ahern, who shared with us her helpful and hopeful thoughts on her grief journey for her son James over the years.
The Big Give - November 28th - December 5th
Nov 14: Thanks to your amazing generosity we have hit our target. Thank you so much. Don't worry you can still give until midday December 5th, but donations won't be doubled now. Please do keep sharing as we want to support even more bereaved parents and siblings. Can we make it to £20,000?
Sign up to one of our fundraising events in 2024!
Oct 31: Drumroll please! All our active fundraising events for 2024 are now live so if you want to plan ahead . So if you want to take on a 5k in Edinburgh, a 10k in London or go for the full marathon in Manchester have a look now.
"I had the booking information open on my phone for months"
Sep 22: "I had the booking information for this retreat open on my phone for months – reluctant to book it; reluctant to go anywhere and talk about this pain that was stuck in my throat and suffocating me since I lost my wonderful son in October 2021 aged 24. He was my only child and my meaning for life...I really did not want to talk about anything to do with my son and my loss; it was my private pain".
AGM 2023 - 25th November
Aug 31: All are welcome to The Compassionate Friends AGM on Saturday 25th November at 2.15 pm in London the venue is the Friends Meeting House which is almost directly opposite Euston station - so really easy to get to. It's a lovely opportunity to meet up together, as well as hear all that The Compassionate Friends has been involved in this last year. It is also a chance for you to meet our Trustees and help to shape the future direction and activities of the charity.
Where were all the men?
Jul 30: I am a bereaved father. My wife and I are grieving for our youngest son who ended his life in August 2018. I decided to write that short piece about my experiences of my first retreat with TCF, particularly in the hope of encouraging more men to attend. I would thoroughly recommend it.
National Bereaved Parents Day 2023
Jun 22: To mark #NationalBereavedParentsDay on July 3rd we are sharing stories from grieving parents and launching a week long look at the support we offer here at The Compassionate Friends.#YouAreNotAlone #NBPD2023
TCF 2.5 Challenge
May 4: This weekend is the TCF 2.5 Challenge! You have come up with walks, sponsored silences, a waterfall trek, teas and an amazing chocolate raffle (yum). There's still time to join in. Think of a challenge including the numbers 2 and 5 to celebrate our 250 volunteers without whom we would just not be able to offer the incredible peer to peer support for bereaved parents and siblings.
Woman & Home magazine showcases peer support
May 3: In the June issue of Woman & Home (out now), Compassionate Friends support group facilitator in Bath, Adelle, shares how she found support at our charity after after the death of her daughter, Celia, and how now she has gone on to support others by volunteering.
Alexander, Seth and Tristan are running the London Marathon - £3k raised so far!
Apr 17: Wow what a trio! We have 3 people running the London Marathon this Sunday in memory of their brothers or cousin. First Alexander Ehmann who's running in memory of his brother, Oliver who died in 2017. He describes The Compassionate Friends as a lifeline for his mother.
Awareness campaign launches
Feb 25: We are delighted to announce that The Compassionate Friends has teamed up with the world's largest outdoor advertising company, JC Decaux, and advertising and branding agency, The Raised Eyebrow Society, to launch our first campaign raising awareness of parental bereavement.
Why not join a TCF Walk ?
Feb 14: For those who have never joined one of our walks before, or perhaps, any form of TCF support, please come along on 22nd April or 20th May if you can. You will find yourselves in what I call, “ the best company “, where there are no awkward conversations. If you come on your own, you will soon find yourself welcomed by others in the group and find the support offered by our walking community.
The TCF 2.5 Challenge is back on May 20th - 21st
Jan 31: The TCF 2.5 Challenge is our annual fundraiser and gives you the chance to get involved in doing something challenging, fun or silly to raise funds for us to run the Helpline, support groups and retreats.
Auction of Lizzie's Nissan Figaro
Jan 11: Kirk Mawer, bereaved father of Lizzie, contacted us to let us know they intend to sell her Nissan Figaro and, with real generosity, donate the proceeds of the sale to The Compassionate Friends.
2023 breaks for bereaved parents in France
Dec 7: One of the most difficult things for us to do after the death of a son or daughter is to go away on holiday...having to see all those 'complete' families can be just unbearable. So in 2022, TCF were very pleased to form a new relationship with Jack and Margaret Reckitt who have a holiday and retreats business, Manoir Mouret, in SW France. In 2023 they are offering TCF three weeks for TCF members to have a break, at no charge.
Giving Tuesday - 29th November 2022
Nov 28: Giving Tuesday is taking place on 29th November 2022. A global day of giving, Giving Tuesday encourages people to donate to their favourite causes and charities. We at The Compassionate Friends are asking people to consider donating on Giving Tuesday towards the costs of our induction of and training and support for our volunteers.
Our runners triumph at the Royal Parks Half Marathon
Oct 26: On a beautiful sunny day 9 runners ran in memory of their children, relatives or friends. Katie Hobbs running for her dear niece, Ryleigh; friends Lucy, Jennie, Luke and Ben running in memory of Denver, Jonah Weiss running for his sister, Emily and RBC Inspire winner, Catherine Blodwell running in memory of Noah and Archie with Vicky Blodwell and Lindsay Long.
Trustees wanted!
Jun 26: Do you have passion, skills and expertise that could help The Compassionate Friends (TCF) to continue to develop? The voluntary role of Trustee with our charity is both rewarding and fulfilling. Our current Trustees invite interested applicants who are at least 3 years past their bereavement to apply to serve on the Trustee Board by standing for election.
Breaks for bereaved parents in France
Jun 5: The Compassionate Friends is building a new relationship to provide bereaved parents an opportunity to have a break in France. Our first week will be from 27 August to 3 September 2022. Tap here to find out more.
Scottish Gathering returns
May 15: "It was my first TCF gathering. I made the right decision to meet our compassionate friends. Everyone is so kind, supportive, I’m ever so grateful for the comfort and support on this painful journey".
Amazing weekend...exactly what I needed
May 11: "I spent last weekend with The Compassionate Friends for a bereaved siblings' retreat...It lasted 24h but the deep bonds formed within that short space of time meant it felt like I'd been there weeks. I can't wait for the next one".
Thank you to all our incredible fundraisers of 2021!
Mar 31: The Compassionate Friends wishes to thank everyone who supported our work this year, including those who made donations, who raised funds in memory of their child or sibling, and who celebrated their birthday via Facebook.
New support day in Glasgow
Mar 14: "On Saturday 5 March, 2022, I spent the day with a roomful of strangers, but we all had one thing in common. We were parents who had lost a child to suicide or substance use. I was nervous as I drove to the event and had all these thoughts going round in my head..."
Finally back at a weekend retreat
Mar 9: In February 2022, we ran our first weekend retreat for bereaved parents for 2 years. The pandemic meant that we were not able to run any supportive weekends - it was absolutely brilliant to get back to supporting in person again.
TCF walks are back!
Jan 25: We’ve turned the corner of this winter but still have a little way to go. As we look forward to Spring, TCF will be organising a series of monthly walks through to the Autumn.
Join our staff team
Nov 9: Our charity is looking for two wonderful people to help us in our national office, based in Kilburn, London NW6. Come and join our small, but growing, and hugely dedicated staff team.
One man cycling!
Oct 31: On 28 September 2021, 4 years after the death of his son Stevie, Gary Goodwin set off on his epic challenge - to cycle the length of the United Kingdom.
Back in person - bereavement support days
Oct 5: "I would recommend giving a day away with TCF a try, it’s last place you want to be, right? Yes and no, it’s the best place to be if you’re a bereaved parent".
We are hiring!
May 27: Find out more about an exciting opportunity to join our small team as our new Events & Community Fundraiser - and make a real difference to the growth of The Compassionate Friends.
Bearing The Unbearable with Dr Joanne Cacciatore
May 8: Join bereaved mother and traumatic grief expert, Dr Joanne Cacciatore, as she shares her reflections on love, loss and the heartbreaking path of grief after the death of a child.
Upright With Knickers On
Mar 17: Three bereaved mums - Kelly, Anne and Jill; three dads - Terry, Andrew and Graham; and a bereaved sibling - Rachael, spoke movingly and with huge courage and honesty about what has helped them survive and find meaning and hope again after the death of their child or sibling.
My Champion, Me - Let's Talk Self-compassion with Sangeeta Mahajan
Feb 18: Dr Sangeeta Majahan lost her only son to suicide over 6 years ago. In her second online talk for TCF she shares with us her reflections around the themes of loss, grief and self-compassion.
Legacies from Grief
Jan 27: A new book has just been published with contributions from many members of The Compassionate Friends, offering hope to bereaved families after the death of a child.
YouTube Channel launched
Jan 7: The Compassionate Friends UK have a YouTube channel! You can view, watch and listen again to our autumn series of talks, a beautiful December candle lighting event, our short film, Say Their Name, and much more.
UK Worldwide Candle Lighting 2020
Dec 15: The Compassionate Friends, UK Worldwide Candle Lighting on 13 December 2020 is available to view on YouTube on The Compassionate Friends UK channel.
2020 Book of Remembrance
Dec 8: Throughout December, you can post a message of remembrance in our 2020 Book for your son or daughter, brother or sister, or grandchild. You can also include a photograph with your message if you wish.
Hope of finding the mourning light through the mist of grief
Nov 13: Andrea Corrie, author of Into The Mourning Light, and also Living In The Mourning Light, spoke to a full house at a gathering of bereaved parents online on the evening of the 11th of November 2020.
Grenades and Guillotines with Cathy Rentzenbrink
Oct 16: Listen to author Cathy Rentzenbrink speak movingly and with huge honesty about the unpredictability of grief and the impact the early loss of her brother Matty had on her life and her family.
A Good Mourning
Sep 4: Join Maria Ahern for her wise, honest, moving and inspiring words as she shares her personal perspectives and reflections since the loss of her only child, her son James, and how she has found ways to have a 'good mourning'
Trustee Election 2020
Aug 12
Personal Reflections on Finding Meaning
Aug 6: There were so many beautiful thoughts in Sangeeta’s presentation, that I would recommend you seek out the video recording and let them all wash over you. The reactions from the watching audience were coming in waves as each person responded individually to an image or thought that resonated with them personally.
Finding Meaning After Loss
Jul 13
Compassion magazine - now in new flipping book format!
Jun 10
Grieving in isolation - stories from bereaved parents and siblings
May 10
Join us...one-off specialist virtual support groups.
Apr 28
Staying connected - update
Mar 17
Thoughts from our new Chair of Trustees
Mar 6
New Derbyshire bereavement support day
Feb 25
‘We keep him close, always’: how I survived the loss of my teenage son'
Jan 18
Sharing Grief, Finding Hope at 50th Anniversary
Nov 15
Impact Report Just Published
Nov 9
Launch of online newsletter for bereaved siblings
Sep 5
Remembering our Child – NEW leaflet and handbook just published
Sep 2
New advice published for professionals supporting bereaved parents and families
Sep 1
Just published...50th Anniversary commemorative edition of Compassion
Jun 16
Death of Joan Henderson, founder parent of The Compassionate Friends
Jun 4
"I've found a community where I can truly open up"
May 24
Scottish Gathering "emotional but there's lots of laughter too..."
May 10
Join us for Tea & Cake at Fifty
Feb 28
NEW - stunning butterfly design cards for any occasion
Feb 22
Booking opens for 50th Anniversary Gathering
Jan 23: Join us for this very special weekend of support, understanding and friendship
Book of Remembrance
Dec 19
Thoughts from the Chair of TCF as we approach Christmas
Nov 29
Fundraising concert a huge success
Oct 23
Singer George Shelley finds comfort at TCF retreat
Oct 3
New leaflets for bereaved parents and families
Aug 6
“The wound is where the light enters you”. Third supportive weekend for parents bereaved by suicide or substance use
Jul 12
Summer 2018 publications - now out
Jun 11
Memorial garden unveiled at Scottish Gathering
May 1
"I couldn’t imagine feeling joy like I feel today..."
Apr 23
"I did the unthinkable..." Overnight retreat for bereaved siblings
Apr 23
"If you've not been to one of these events, please go, you won't regret it".
Apr 4
Spring 2018 editions of TCF publications - out now
Mar 12
New private Facebook for parents who have suffered loss of a baby, toddler or pre-school child
Feb 13
New fact sheets - making a complaint to or about the NHS
Dec 18
Worldwide Candle Lighting 2017 - love, light and remembrance
Dec 6
Gathering in Northamptonshire 'bursting with positive'.
Nov 14
Would you like a grief companion/befriender?
Oct 22
At the end of the day I felt 'lighter'...support day in Hampshire
Sep 17
Could you be a TCF Trustee?
Aug 2
"I didn't want to leave. We could've stayed all week!!"
Jul 26
We're moving!
Jul 19
Stories of grief, hope and resilience in feature documentary
Jul 12
Royal mourners attend funeral of TCF President and Patron Countess Mountbatten
Jun 28
Death announced of Countess Mountbatten, passionate supporter of The Compassionate Friends
Jun 15
Charity place available in 2018 London Marathon
Jun 9
"Wonderful memories of a beautiful weekend filled with warmth, laughter and hope".
May 18
Supportive weekend for adult bereaved siblings
Apr 17
Spring editions of our publications - out now.
Mar 20
Help our charity to improve and develop
Jan 26
Making connections, finding support - retreat weekend January 2017
Jan 17
New private Facebook group for bereaved dads
Dec 13
Winter 2016/7 editions of our publications - out now.
Dec 10
Worldwide Candle Lighting 2016
Dec 4
Packed AGM spellbound by author of The Sad Book
Nov 7
A powerful, searingly honest account of loss at this year's National Gathering
Oct 10
Trustee Election Update
Sep 29
Stunning new look for TCF publications
Sep 20
We are recruiting!
Sep 14: Advert for Volunteer Coordinator role.
Notice of Trustee Election
Aug 10: Trustee election notice and nomination form
A message from the TCF Trustees
Jul 28: Message from TCF Trustees - new CEO, two new positions to be recruited, office move
New 3 day retreat offers parents support and comfort
Jul 21: Feedback from retreat for parents bereaved by suicide, addiction or substance use.
New range of TCF merchandise launched
Jun 29: New range of TCF merchandise launched
Sad news of the death Joe Lawley
Jun 13: The death of Joe Lawley, one of the Founder parents of TCF.
London Marathon runner presents cheque
Jun 13: London Marathon runner, Marcus Hunt, presents cheque to The Compassionate Friends.
Bookings for our supportive National Gathering are now open …
Jun 8: 'Continuing Love – Regaining Hope' is the theme for the National Gathering in Northampton from 7th-9th October.
Loss of a Child – New UK Facebook page
Mar 13: The Compassionate Friends UK has a new private Facebook group for any parent whose son or daughter has died at any age, and from any cause.
New Retreat for parents bereaved by suicide, addiction or substance use
Feb 9
Election result
Feb 3
‘I returned with a heightened sense of freedom – permission to grieve as I need.’
Jan 11
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